black lesbians and their hang-ups

First of all lemme state that this is MY opinion and if you don't like it you can get off my blog but don't leave rude comments. I will blast you.

This blog came about because I read another girls blog a couple of weeks ago and of course what i've seen.

Relationship hang-up::

Black lesbians and these stupid labels...like how ppl hate on S4S or F4F..okay on my page it clearly says I have a preference for femmes and I do but unlike the rest of the ppl I see I'll never let it stop me from dating a stud if I like her. Some of you could be head over heels for a girl but ya'll don't want to date her or take her out because you're stupid and you're worried about how it'll look to other ppl that DON'T matter...the only ppl that matter are the ones in the relationship. She's a woman STOP worrying about other ppl, thats how you let the wrong person walk away from you worrying ppl that don't give a damn about you cause they'll be happy you won't.

I NEVER see these issues with white women..since I was younger I remember seeing 2 butch or femme girls together and IT'S OKAY to them they're happy..black lesbians seem to be the only ones with these issues. STOP THIS SHYT.

I've talked to a few girls that had never dated a femme before never got to a relationship because, "they didn't want to be the dominant one" or because ppl were asking them who was the dominant one, they didn't feel like dealing with the questions but I treat you right, you have nothing bad to say about me but I wear pumps and peep-toes not J's and thats your issue...my response its not their business and I never ask anyone to be dominant and I don't try to be its a relationship..work together..

Jumping from girl to girl..I have a serious issue with this because I for one still believe in a relationship where both partners can be faithful and making the other happy. Call me crazy but I still believe in happy endings. It just seems like white lesbian couples have more stable relationships than the black couples(there are exceptions)...IDK maybe we feel like we have to play around or something but it irks my nerves to no end. I hate seeing relationships end that I thought were gonna work..even hearing about straight couples breaking up ALL the time gets on my nerves and hearing older ppl talk about how the younger generation is with relationships..I can't even say they're wrong cause everyday ppl are breaking up for dumb shyt. NO ONE wants to work for anything anymore, love is not easy.

SEX HANG-UPS::

This strap thing..you wanna ram somebody with that shyt all the time but since you're a "real stud" or a "real lesbian" you won't take it. Its got nothing to do with really being straight. Its about penetration no matter what some of you think your finger can't go as deep..stop thinkin you're this sex God...and wtf is a real stud? Shut up with that shyt already.

Strap-sucking::Sex is part mental, thats why ppl like it. Its not gonna hurt to put your mouth on it because your girl asks or maybe its just a freaky thing to do.

Don't touch me:: Why? If you're comfortable with your woman. Why can't she touch you?

White ppl in general are more free when it comes to sex..I love it. I love talkin to ppl about sex. White ppl are just down for stuff that black ppl are scared to even think about cause once again they're scared of how it'll look....let it go please.

I'm done for now.